have U eveR wondered how can THings on tv, on a burnt disc, on a pc can affEct someOne this much?? i'm still woNdEring...

do u remember the time in school.... when we had to write essays? be it in bm or even in english or mandarin or tamil.... did u ever come across writing an essay that had a title kesan kesan menonton tv or maybe the negative effects that 24 hour satelite tv poses? where u write about how budaya kuning potrayed in the tv,movies and entertainment industry coming to our shores affect the youth,.. budaya kuning in the sense of violence, sex and everything bad( as perceived by some but there may be disputes to this stand) ... i'm sure somewhere along the line during our spm years? or maybe pmr....that some of us have come across this topic and somehow never had any problem writing bout it ... where we had to write the cause,effect, and ways to overcome it... there was just so many points lingering in everyone's head... cause? the censorship board not strict enough.... effect? youths get influenced by the sex,violence and fall into the cracks... ways to overcome? proper screening process for certain movies ,series that come to our beloved country.. However if u ask me ....the TV... the movies... the series... the dramas... the music videos... the cartoons( maybe the cartoons just make me laugh ok) ... they have somehow influenced me in a way that somehow i feel ppl around me cant really do at times.... Have u felt tat after u watched a certain show on tv that u feel u want to better yourself? felt that what u're doin is somehow not right or u're not doin enough? feel u should have said things tat u didnt say? wonder how the characters in it connect to u somehow?? ... I can honestly tell u , I have... call me a tv junkie,movie junkie, series junkie... fine ... couldnt care less.. basically i was just watching this show called Grey's anatomy...sure quite a few have heard of it... but there's something bout this show that pulls me... the mix of emotions.. pain,happiness, determination, failure, success,betrayal , sadness,trust, belief and the all time favourite? love.... it just gets to me... i somehow feel after every episode that there's something bout me that i wanna make right...if i hadnt done something that i should have.. i must do it... do the right thing... make the right choices...making choices isnt hard ..it's just painful...if its not painful it's not hard... appreciate ppl more... not take ppl or things for granted as things can change in an instant...make the most out of things..u dont get second chances most of the time..unless u're lucky... what i feel is that these shows have somehow made me a better person..although i cant really be a judge of that.. but still... sometimes when change occurs to u... u're the first one to feel it... ppl dont need to tell u for u to know it... inspirational stuff is what this all is.. this kinda shows and movies make a difference..and i salute the actors.. the directors.. all those involved in it.. and the ppl who came up with the idea... heck the might just be in it for the money.. but little did they know , they had an effect on someone.. insignificant as he may be,.. but it can spread..every cloud has a silver lining... another show that kinda made me think.. is a show called My name is Earl....it talks bout karma... cause and effect.. you do good and good shall befall u..vice versa... what goes around comes around.... the show helped me think bout karma and try to understand it..till i think that it exist... never thought bout it this way.. and thus making me want to do things the right way.. Okok... i dont know whether it has affected anyone else this way , this kinda shows and movies... but it has done this to me... and i think it's great... it gives hope sometimes... i know that music has somewhat the same effect.... and i'm a fan of that as well but not as big as a tv or movie fan... it affects me differently...